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Who do I chose to be my best man?
I’m having a bit of a dillema. I recently got engaged but it’s been a confusing time for my friends. I got in some trouble for my party life, so been staying away from all the old drinking buddies untill everything gets cleared up.
I haven’t made many friends since then, which brings up option "A" we’ll call him…
Friend "A" is a old co-worker, we share a few things in common, but not much of a history between the two of us. Friend "A" is also engaged to the maid of honor, but don’t want to choose him just because of that. He’s a good guy, just not everything I expected in a best man…although he would probably be more responsible than the next option.
Friend "B" is an old party friend, I have known him for years and is a past roommate. This friend shares more in common with me. He knows way more about me, and we get along great. I have lots of history with this guy, just thinking of him makes me laugh at some of the things we have been through. He has also been there with me through the rough times. I could open up and spill my guts to this friend, but not friend "A". The down side with this friend is he isn’t the most responsible guy around.
There are a few others, but I think I have narrowed it down to these two…I know which one I think I want, I just want some outside opinion to help me think it over.
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BLACK HYPNOTIST XXIII | Nov 19, 2009
Friend "B". Friend B sounds like a good friend, and the guy you want at your wedding. Invite him, but make sure to set up rules. If he is a good friend, he’ll respect you and follow the rules you give him. If he says that the rules are bad, then tell him you have another friend, but he is your better friend. He should be honored.
Alianora | Nov 19, 2009
i would say friend b nothing again a jsut b is a friend you have had for a long time and thats the guy i would choose to be honest and if he is your friend he will be there for your big day
Aaron | Nov 19, 2009
for sure B
mine?
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Thespian | Nov 19, 2009
Friend B. You guys are actually friends and I think you’d rather have him be your best man than someone you don’t know much about or aren’t great friends with. Just set some ground rules with him if and when you ask him so he knows this is serious. If he’s a good friend, he’ll respect you and follow up to his promises and responsibilites.
Kristen | Nov 19, 2009
I’m with Alianora on this one!
double T | Nov 19, 2009
party friend. Tell him how important the wedding is, and tell him to be responsible for you. If he thinks it’s a joke, he’s still that douchebag from all the frat parties named chad
James | Nov 19, 2009
B
Jessi | Nov 19, 2009
Friend B.
Don’t you want to be standing next to your actual buddy during your wedding. That way it’ll be more memorable instead of ol’ responsible rob who you barely feel comfortable with, right?
midnight515 | Nov 19, 2009
go with option b. a best man isn’t just someone that is going to be resposible (although don’t give him the ring until she’s about to walk down aisle) he’s going to be there for you if you get cold feet or something. someone who knows you really well is going to be such a better person to talk you down. just in general to keep you calm. it’s a big day have someone close to you there. it only happens once in your life it’s better to have your closest friends with you.
imbored | Nov 19, 2009
I cannot answer your question. Only you can.
I think when choosing a best man that guys choose for the wrong reasons. I think your best man needs to be that man whom you look up to and you know they will always be there for you no matter what stupid things you may do in life. Which brings me to think a brother or father or grandfather or uncle. Blood is always thicker than water. I think you could find a blood relative that would put their life on the line for you. Thats who I would pick.
MATTHEW | Nov 19, 2009
B, your oldest friend u’ve shared alot of good times it sounds like. You don’t want to choose guy A and look back at your wedding and be like wtf why didnt i choose someone closer to me
dopecutsclothing | Nov 19, 2009
if either one of these are related to you … pick that one.. but if not:
If friend B your wife to be does not get along with .. dont do it. if thats the life u are trying to get away from.. dont do it… if you think that you will know this person 25 years down the line… do that… but it might be cool to have the your fiances made of honors husband your best man.
ok for my parents wedding,.. they picked their friends. they have been married 26 years now and they RARELY talk to them. it sucks cause the wedding photos are done with them in them… rather if you had family … they are there FOREVER with you and you know them always 
I am upset with my bros wedding cause his wife got a brides( old friend) from germany to be a brides made… low and behold what a shocker 5 years later she talks to her once a yearish . and here the sister(me) is not in the party yet she gets along great with the bro and wife.
so to sum that all up for you… pick family over anything nar | Nov 19, 2009